{"id":6073,"date":"2024-10-28T09:02:21","date_gmt":"2024-10-28T09:02:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/optionstogrow.com\/?p=6073"},"modified":"2024-11-05T11:45:07","modified_gmt":"2024-11-05T11:45:07","slug":"le-courage-detre-deteste-4-cles-pour-choisir-le-bonheur-et-trouver-sa-liberte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/optionstogrow.com\/fr\/le-courage-detre-deteste-4-cles-pour-choisir-le-bonheur-et-trouver-sa-liberte\/","title":{"rendered":"Le courage d&rsquo;\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"\"><em>Le courage d&rsquo;\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Dans le livre Le courage d&rsquo;\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 , Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake les auteurs prennent une vue radicale du bonheur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Ichiro Kishimi est un expert en psychologie Adl\u00e9rienne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Il reprend les id\u00e9es du c\u00e9l\u00e8bre Psychologue <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Alfred_Adler\">Alfred Adler<\/a> et nous les propose dans une version simplifi\u00e9e.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">La th\u00e9orie du livre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">\u00catre heureux ou malheureux est un choix.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Et la cl\u00e9 du bonheur repose sur deux croyances qu&rsquo;on peut tous adopter.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh7-rt.googleusercontent.com\/docsz\/AD_4nXc2f31sUrCTR4-v19dmOx17XK8bLIeKCSrNOPlzzkDRUwAmXK51HmC8JAkbM4boDozrcnhI1P7Qgm1ZDgxKZ_jeZEIGyqWN9rw76TDn1CK48Z63YODkcFk0hpmRQztz13Zh6EXRUro9TtvvMqbYMEQTWs4?key=yO-htiROW1IhxyIYflcevel4\" alt=\"Le courage d'\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9\" style=\"width:250px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><sup>Le courage d&rsquo;\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Qu&rsquo;est-ce que les gens malheureux choisissent?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Objectif non-intentionnel : Gagner la validit\u00e9 des autres&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">C&rsquo;est souvent un objectif pas d\u00e9cid\u00e9, mais subi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Leurs actions sont guid\u00e9es par \u201csi je fais cela, ils vont m&rsquo;aimer.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Et ils cherchent leur potentiel bonheur dans les yeux des autres.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Le probl\u00e8me de rechercher la validit\u00e9 des autres comme une source de bonheur?&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">C&rsquo;est une mission impossible.&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">On ne peut pas plaire \u00e0 tout le monde.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Quand on pla\u00eet \u00e0 quelqu&rsquo;un, on d\u00e9pla\u00eet souvent \u00e0 un autre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Et m\u00eame quand on finit par y arriver, notre bonheur est conditionnel \u00e0 la pens\u00e9e de l&rsquo;autre. Donc pas durable sur le long terme.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">On construit sa vie sur le souhait des autres.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Combien de docteurs, d&rsquo;architectes, d&rsquo;avocats sont frustr\u00e9s car ils auraient aim\u00e9 suivre leur propre voie au lieu de celle de leurs parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">On percoit la qualit\u00e9 de la relation comme un sacrifice.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Pour qu&rsquo;ils m&rsquo;aiment, je dois faire cela. Je ne veux pas les d\u00e9cevoir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La r\u00e9ussite des autres nous fait de l&rsquo;ombre.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Quand mon patron f\u00e9licite mon coll\u00e8gue, je pense que cela me fait de l&rsquo;ombre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Pourquoi?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Car je vois l&rsquo;attention de mon boss, qui est mon \u00e9nergie \u00e0 bonheur, orient\u00e9e vers quelqu&rsquo;un d&rsquo;autre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Quand c&rsquo;est l&rsquo;autre qui la boit, il en reste moins pour moi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Si l&rsquo;autre ne me reconna\u00eet pas, c&rsquo;est que je suis incomp\u00e9tent.&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">On associe notre comp\u00e9tence \u00e0 la reconnaissance de l&rsquo;autre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">S&rsquo;il ne me voit pas, je perds de la valeur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Les r\u00e9seaux sociaux nous emprisonnent dans le syst\u00e8me de \u201clike\u201d et \u201cvue\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">M\u00eame quand on en conna\u00eet les rouages.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Je suis un adulte qui comprend (un peu) la psychologie et j&rsquo;arrive encore \u00e0 me faire pi\u00e9ger par les \u201clikes\u201d ou \u201cnon-likes\u201d que je re\u00e7ois sur mes messages <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/drorallouche\/\">LinkedIn.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Imaginez-vous ce que cela peut faire pour nos enfants.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Les quatre choses que les gens heureux choisissent et qui font toute la diff\u00e9rence<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Objectif intentionnel : \u00eatre utile.&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>1) Ils choisissent de poursuivre l&rsquo;objectif intentionnel<\/strong> d&rsquo;aider les autres sans rien attendre en retour.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>2) Bonheur intrins\u00e8que :<\/strong> Ils trouvent leur bonheur dans l&rsquo;activit\u00e9 elle-m\u00eame.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh7-rt.googleusercontent.com\/docsz\/AD_4nXfQE1oW9SgJfv2g2zLjghNk9-Cc93T3OUmR83zHJec5BNnvGZNi_lgsekvd55AKePci6btev7sayORUPFOt0anFXMSt9xdSUI-96tK98kqWGWvM7WWfG_mnNLPtbZpRsOTOKcZJ2a5oVby-ZxCpGzX3aJc?key=yO-htiROW1IhxyIYflcevel4\" alt=\"Le courage d'\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9\" style=\"width:250px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><sup>Le courage d&rsquo;\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Cette notion a beaucoup raisonn\u00e9 avec moi. En tant que coach, vous aidez la personne \u00e0 trouver sa voie. \u00c0 retrouver son ind\u00e9pendance de pens\u00e9e. Un \u00e9l\u00e9ment que les auteurs appuient comme une composante essentielle du bonheur dans leur deuxi\u00e8me livre \u00a0\u00bb The Courage to Be Happy\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Et en m\u00eame temps, vous apprenez \u00e0 ne pas \u00eatre attach\u00e9 \u00e0 vos suggestions. Le coach\u00e9 peut les prendre ou les laisser.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">C&rsquo;est peut-\u00eatre cela qui m&rsquo;apporte autant de satisfaction et de sens dans ma nouvelle carri\u00e8re <a href=\"https:\/\/optionstogrow.com\/fr\/acceleration-des-projets-personnels\/\">de coach.&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Pour \u00eatre utile, les auteurs nous rappellent qu&rsquo;on peut faire plein de choses, mais que le simple fait d&rsquo;exister est d\u00e9j\u00e0 en soi utile pour les gens autour de nous.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/winning-writer-6789.ck.page\/2063ed76c8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">D\u00e9couvrez mon Guide ressources : Les 11 livres qui ont le plus influenc\u00e9 ma carri\u00e8re. (Y compris mon pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9 de toutes les cat\u00e9gories)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>3) Vivent dans le pr\u00e9sent, tout en poursuivant un objectif dans le futur.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Ils s&rsquo;appliquent \u00e0 appr\u00e9cier la route vers leurs objectifs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Le moment pr\u00e9sent leur apporte le bonheur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>4) Fixe des limites dans leurs relations.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Adler croit en la responsabilit\u00e9 personnelle.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Avec les autres, cela se traduit par.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Ne prenez pas une d\u00e9cision pour les autres.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Ne laissez personne, y compris vos proches, prendre une d\u00e9cision pour vous.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh7-rt.googleusercontent.com\/docsz\/AD_4nXcZQGR6TnPgoj1tGH3VKVZFNeygHVpRUkTkpmnJD4f2x5H-xSbYkXiPuMDcDHzQMKGGo8CY7xv7vpwh_5w80MXAP8an3NVLY7K6zMqQGAiBHlXmofjL_AUbrSNrGRAUy7cjbsjoUnGm2V04p8P_oSSofBJx?key=yO-htiROW1IhxyIYflcevel4\" alt=\"Le courage d'\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9\" style=\"width:250px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><sup>Le courage d&rsquo;\u00eatre d\u00e9test\u00e9 : 4 cl\u00e9s pour choisir le bonheur et trouver sa libert\u00e9<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Dans le c\u00e9l\u00e8bre livre de Mark Manson, the \u00ab\u00a0The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck\u00a0\u00bb&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">L&rsquo;auteur nous propose d&rsquo;abandonner la croyance que les probl\u00e8mes doivent \u00eatre r\u00e9gl\u00e9s par les personnes qui les cr\u00e9ent. Et de la remplacer par \u00ab\u00a0les probl\u00e8mes doivent \u00eatre r\u00e9gl\u00e9s par ceux qui sont affect\u00e9s par le probl\u00e8me\u00a0\u00bb. Une autre mani\u00e8re de nous responsabiliser.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Conclusion.&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Un livre qui nous met devant nos responsabilit\u00e9s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Qui nous pousse \u00e0 explorer notre objectif cach\u00e9 \u00ab\u00a0la validation des autres\u00a0\u00bb et le remplacer par un objectif intentionnel \u201c\u00eatre utile pour les autres\u00a0\u00bb.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Malgr\u00e9 le message direct des auteurs, ils reconnaissent que c&rsquo;est un travail qui peut prendre du temps.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alors, autant le commencer maintenant avec ces 3 questions :&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Choisissez une \u00e9motion\/situation n\u00e9gative qui vous pose probl\u00e8me&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"\">Comment est-elle li\u00e9e \u00e0 la recherche de validation des autres?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">Imaginez-vous que vous avez r\u00e9ussi \u00e0 abandonner cette qu\u00eate de validation des autres,&nbsp; Qu&rsquo;est ce que vous ressentez, voyez, entendez?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">Quelle est la premi\u00e8re chose dans votre pouvoir pour vous lib\u00e9rer de leur approbation?&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">\u00c0 bient\u00f4t.&nbsp;<br>Dror<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>Si vous avez aim\u00e9 cet article<\/strong>, vous aimerez surement ma newsletter en fran\u00e7ais. Rejoignez une communaut\u00e9 de lecteurs ambitieux qui veulent r\u00e9ussir leurs carri\u00e8res tout en profitant de leur vie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/optionstogrow.com\/fr\/newsletter\/\"><strong>Inscrivez-vous ici<\/strong><\/a><strong>&nbsp;<\/strong>et recevez l\u00e0 tous les mercredis matin directement dans votre boite mail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>***<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\"><strong>PS :<\/strong>&nbsp;d\u00e8s que vous \u00eates pr\u00eat, voici 2 autres fa\u00e7ons avec lesquelles je peux vous aider \u00e0 acc\u00e9l\u00e9rer votre croissance gr\u00e2ce au coaching :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"\"><strong>Vous \u00eates ambitieux<\/strong>&nbsp;: vous avez d\u00e9j\u00e0 r\u00e9alis\u00e9 beaucoup. Et vous avez l\u2019intention de continuer. Mais cette fois-ci, vous souhaitez le faire tout en profitant des choses importantes dans votre vie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/optionstogrow.com\/fr\/travaillez-avec-moi\/\">Curieux\u2026Cliquez ici<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\"><strong>Vous dirigez une \u00e9quipe<\/strong>&nbsp;: vous savez qu\u2019une petite am\u00e9lioration dans votre leadership peut avoir d\u2019\u00e9normes impacts sur les r\u00e9sultats de l\u2019\u00e9quipe et donc de votre carri\u00e8re. J\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 form\u00e9 et certifi\u00e9 par le premier ex\u00e9cutif coach au monde Marshall Goldsmith. Je vous accompagne dans votre projet et garantis le r\u00e9sultat. Vous ne me payez que si vous r\u00e9ussissez. 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